With the lack of sexual tension it mostly happens with my guy friends, but on occassion a girl has this, what I like and look for is someone (friend or otherwise) that I can be comfortable doing absolutely everything with, even and especially being apart from eachother,(other than possible pains of longing, that's ok), but people I can sit (or walk, love walks) and talk to about topics that WE BOTH have common interest in, and the same for all activities, or most I suppose.
I like being comfortable with someone who I can share feelings of respect and admiration, someone who I can learn from as well as teach, who needs me to listen sometimes and who is there when I need them to. Just enough of the time, at the least, to where life doesn't suck having them in your life, and often enough to help make life worth living, if not great. |